Tuesday, August 23, 2011

NOT MUCH

Not much to report today...lets just put it this way...I am struggling. I will update tomorrow!

9 comments:

My Three Sons said...

HUGS... :o(

Anonymous said...

To my favorite daughter---everything will work out fine.

I LOVE YOU-----DAD

Anonymous said...

It will get better! Hang in there, we are thinking of you every momment. The moment will come soon where it will clIck and be how you dreamed.

Tia

Amy said...

praying for all of you.

Reena said...

(((HUGS))) I don't recall if this is your first/only. That would be soo hard!

It takes time. Some folks say the little ones who had a tight bond with their Ayi or foster mom reject the new mom the hardest at first. This was definitely true for our youngest. After we returned home she would accept me as long as DH was not around, but as soon as he was, I was completely on the OUTS! It was a hard few months like this, but sometime along the way, she quit jumpiong on DH so fervently when he would get home and then made a complete turnaround and only wanted me. Now, about 18 months later we are starting to enter a phase where she will accept either of us without too much of a fuss but prefers her momma.

Anonymous said...

Hey Deanna // Uncle Klaus is sitting here with me looking at the photos & reading today's status: ... he says "HANG IN THERE!!"

Pablo said...

Dee:
I know it is hard, but give it some time. Ava's whole world has been turned upside down. She needs some time to trust the new world that you are creating for her.
Bobby

Anonymous said...

Take a deep breath. You want her to want you so bad i am sure it hurts. Take a deep breath and try to look at the situation a little different. If you want to give her a hug..give Tony a hug...give the bunny a hug. She needs to understand in her terms that you too are a package deal and you are both equally loving and supportive. Love you. HUGS
A. Deb

Anonymous said...

Deanna,

Please know I care, and am praying for you, Ava, and Tony. Ava will adjust because each of you were appointed to be her family. You were called to be her mother, Tony her dad,and Lainey her big sister. Oh my, what a lucky little girl!
Karla